Thursday, October 25, 2018

Different for Girls: Making Claims about Women in Media

In the song “Different for Girls” by Dierks Bentley, song writers J.T. Harding and Shane McAnally compare how women respond to break ups differently than men. They claim that women are more emotional in the time after a breakup, while men try to move on by ignoring their feelings or acting out. The song was released in 2016 by Capitol Nashville Records.

Overall, one of the main conclusions of the song is that emotion demands to be felt, even though it is different based on gender. For men in the song, emotion is expressed through aggression. For women, emotion is expressed upfront, but must be limited to maintain their image. The writers construct the female perspective of breakups based on assumptions and stereotypes of women.

By applying a feminist analysis approach, “Different for Girls” misrepresents women by constructing a woman’s response to break ups from a man’s point of view. The artists only identify women through their stereotypical experience of emotion. Because both song writers are men, they only understand a woman’s reaction to a breakup from the outside. There is no true woman’s experience of emotion taken into consideration. The creative viewpoint is not female; therefore, it is misinformed by applying specific emotions and experiences to all women.

One specific form of feminist analysis is the image and representation approach. This interpretation of feminism looks at “what kinds of images are present and what do these images reveal about women’s position in culture,". It is important to understand what affects these images of women in media have on society and culture. “Different for Girls” perpetuates the classic stereotype of women being emotional over men; this has a negative effect for women in society.

“Different for Girls” creates images that represent women’s relations with men, their own lives, and society. For example, the song states, “she don’t sleep all day and leave the house a wreck// she don’t have the luxury to let herself go,”. This quote represents the ideal image of a woman in society: a pretty, put together, homemaker. Even though women are emotional after their breakup, they must overcome their emotion to maintain an image. The ideal woman experiences emotion after breakups but not so much that she cannot maintain her image. The writers create meaning in the song at the expense of women.

Furthermore, Bentley sings, “when the going gets tough… they [guys] can just act tough// it’s different for girls,”. This lyric creates the idea when things get hard, women succumb to emotion. This makes them the weaker sex. In an interview about the song, Shane McAnally stated, “females are built in a way that they go towards emotion, that they wear their hearts on their sleeves." This is a generalization of females, which McAnally demonstrates within the song. The artists assume that all women experience emotions the same way; this limits the diversity of the true personalities of women.

In conclusion, “Different for Girls” represents women in popular culture by constructing them as the more emotional, weaker sex. Feminist analysis demonstrates the importance of accurate representation of women and their experiences. This song does not correctly demonstrate a woman’s experience; therefore, it perpetuates stereotypes of how females should act in society.

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